Today's society tends to believe that people do have a right to sexual happiness. Situations similar to the one described by Lewis happen all the time. Most Americans think that sexual happiness is essential in a marriage. The reality is that true lasting sexual happiness is impossible. Couples that don't understand this are likely to divorce when the physical attraction fades away. In order to have a long-lasting marriage, the husband and wife need to be committed to each other, no matter what happens to them in terms of physical attraction.
I also agree with Lewis' second to last paragraph, which says that a society that promotes promiscuity puts women at a disadvantage. Men tend to have a much larger desire for physical attraction than women do, and this has already been exploited in our society. Advertisers find that promiscuity in their ads especially attracts male consumers, so they include promiscuous images of females. I think that this is a serious problem in our society, and that it will continue to get worse.
I like your qualification for pursuing sexual happiness: that we should only do so if we can pursue it without breaking moral laws. I also agree that marriage requires more than sexual satisfaction. It takes true commitment that goes beyond simply bringing pleasure to your partner.
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